Hey, i hate to just show up and bump an older thread, but i've just experience what sounds like this exact same problem and i'm wondering if you ever found a solution, or if anyone else has any additional insight?
The problem started up very suddenly and hasn't gone away. The coolant temps are normal and stay pegged where they belong, only the oil temps are out of whack. Since the problem appeared, i just had my car in to the dealership for some major work (timing belt, water pump), and had them do an oil change while they were at it. I also told them about the problem, so they ran a series of diagnostics, but couldn't find the problem. They concluded that everything was operating within spec and basically told me it was fine (though i'mpositive it isn't). I'm really stumped as to what's going on here, and it doesn't seem like i'm going to have any luck with the dealership on this one, so any helpful information or whatever would be great.

Help?