Kelly nailed that one!!!

 

sometimes

 

31 and 23...Both old enough to no longer be playing any games. Im 26 and if I like someone I let them know, or I did until I got my GF. Anyway just do it, the drink thing is great just dont get hammered and blurt something out. Play the mood, if the feeling is there, then go for it. Who knows your friend my go out with the guy and find out that outside of work he is a complete ****. If the interest is there then do it. If your friend just wants to get a peice, I am sure there are alot of guys willing to make the sacrifice for her right her on this forum.

 

Tell him! The age thing shouldnt be a factor really, if its was 16 and 30 then yeah thats gonna cause problems but 20's and 30's you should seriously be mature enough to deal.

I've lost count at the number of girls who had "crushes" on me in high school and I was too oblivious and shy to notice, I find out years after the fact now that I'm married!

most guys are pretty oblivious, better to smack them in the face with the info and deal with the fallout afterwards (if there is any) than to always wonder OR find out when its too late to act on it *mumbles*

 

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and yea nice Name of the thread thanks a lot i was ready to skeet skeet early in the mornin'

 

Same here Krule...talk about a let down.

 

she is good thats all i can say

 

okay so i spoke to my friend last night and she didn't do it i told her to tell him last night and she was saying how she had 3 opportunities to do it and she didn't say anything! ahhh she chickened out...

okay so i hear what all of you guys are saying...first of all..my friend is sooo not the aggressive type..she's very passive (very unlike me ) so this is a lot harder for her than you guys think...and she has already been out with him..not on a date date...but like yeah they hang out every so often...they go out to lunch and they go out to dinner...she talks to him just one on one a lot...last night in fact she was sitting outside his house just talking to him for 3 hours after they got back from dinner...she's not oblivious but she can't tell whether he likes her or not...and i dont really know what to say to her since i never met the guy..

but he's leaving in a month for africa and then going for 6 months and then returning..he might go back again later on tho...

but yeah which brings me to my next thing...why are men so difficult to read? she's been hanging out with him since she started the job maybe for about 6 months?? and she has no idea whether he likes her or not...sometimes it seems as if he does and sometimes it's like he acts as strictly a friend...oh yeah and also..what do u guys think about this..so last night that guy invites his friend to go to dinner with them...about 830 ish...and then his friend starts asking her all these questions..and then he leaves at like 930 and then they are alone for the next 3 hours talking...so like do u guys bring your friends to check out the girl or do you think it was just the friend being nice and it really doesn't mean that he likes her...

yeah but she says she's gonna tell him for sure tonight...i'll make sure of that...maybe i should go meet the guy and give him the once over..and if he can handle the evil eye..then he'll be good enough for her

 

Guys are hard to read either they throw out mixed signals or show no emotion at all. Maybe he brought his friend along to ask her all the questions he's afraid to ask. He could also be the passive type and to afraid to say something because of fear of rejection. Or maybe he dosent want to lose her as a friend if it dosent work out. I tell her to go up to him and say something or walk up to him and grab him by the head and give long overdramatic kisses.

 

Just talking for 3 hours? He likes her....

It sounds like she is really into the guy, but if he is going to be leaving in a month for 6 months then possibly again, it sounds like she is going to get her heart broken. Unless she just wants a fling, I would tell her to look elsewhere, unless this guy is "the one".

No clue about the friend at dinner thing....... that is strange, and I would have never done that. Maybe the guy just has no cojones?