Ken has a brother?
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From: Lunatic Fringe
Ken has a brother?
This is a CL post from my area (Pittsburgh) from this guy to all the ladies:
I read these kinds of posts and it really ticks me off. First off, women are NOT "either a BBW or a Barbie", there are women who are in shape that do NOT look like Barbie. Guys don't think we are all Kens but when a guy is somewhat in shape, why shouldn't he want a lady thats also somewhat in shape? And just because a girl isn't carrying an extra 100+lbs doesn't mean she is the most beauticul lady on the planet. But, some guys would still find her attractive just the same and be happy that she values her health. Your derogatory use of the word Barbie is an insult to women, not men. Just because you choose not to stay at a healthy weight doesn't mean other women shouldnt or that they think they are beautiful.
I have offered repeatedly to help FOR FREE any woman that wants to get into better shape on here. And not one single response other than some hate mail. But again, if there are any overweight ladies on here that would like some good tips on how to get to a healthier weight, I am more than willing to take the time and answer your emails.
But, if you choose to stay the way you are, please understand that most guys in decent shape are not going to be interested in you. It's not just the way you look, it's the mental attitude of someone who allows and accepts being overweight or obese. And PLEASE stop insulting women who made a different choice than you and stop critisizing men who are not interested in BBW's, It really does not mean we are looking for perfection, just looking for someone who thinks like we do healthwise.
You can flag this if you want but there MAY be a BBW who wants help and you are denying her of that!
I read these kinds of posts and it really ticks me off. First off, women are NOT "either a BBW or a Barbie", there are women who are in shape that do NOT look like Barbie. Guys don't think we are all Kens but when a guy is somewhat in shape, why shouldn't he want a lady thats also somewhat in shape? And just because a girl isn't carrying an extra 100+lbs doesn't mean she is the most beauticul lady on the planet. But, some guys would still find her attractive just the same and be happy that she values her health. Your derogatory use of the word Barbie is an insult to women, not men. Just because you choose not to stay at a healthy weight doesn't mean other women shouldnt or that they think they are beautiful.
I have offered repeatedly to help FOR FREE any woman that wants to get into better shape on here. And not one single response other than some hate mail. But again, if there are any overweight ladies on here that would like some good tips on how to get to a healthier weight, I am more than willing to take the time and answer your emails.
But, if you choose to stay the way you are, please understand that most guys in decent shape are not going to be interested in you. It's not just the way you look, it's the mental attitude of someone who allows and accepts being overweight or obese. And PLEASE stop insulting women who made a different choice than you and stop critisizing men who are not interested in BBW's, It really does not mean we are looking for perfection, just looking for someone who thinks like we do healthwise.
You can flag this if you want but there MAY be a BBW who wants help and you are denying her of that!
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Completely agree with the original post.
You start resenting the other person, if they don't work on their physical appearance. Even if a girls "skinny fat" it's nice to see her *** get in the gym. If you go to the gym, and you work on keeping fit, and eating right (for the most part) then obviously you want your partner to do the same, and not just be a slob about things.
You start resenting the other person, if they don't work on their physical appearance. Even if a girls "skinny fat" it's nice to see her *** get in the gym. If you go to the gym, and you work on keeping fit, and eating right (for the most part) then obviously you want your partner to do the same, and not just be a slob about things.
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Joined: Sep 2005
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From: Colchester, VT
I have a friend who likes fat chicks too.
Wait, forgot something... thats a bold, italic, underlined 'a'. Everyone else likes height/weight proportional, fit, skinny, etc. Theres a girl on the local c-list who's titled herself right past BBW to SBBW. Yeah, super fat. Looking for a fit attractive guy who wants a 350 girl. She'll be looking for a while I bet.
AND ANOTHER THING. There are big (moderately attractive) women, but whats with EVERY fat chick calling themselves beautiful? Half are mouth breathers, that is not a beautiful trait.
Wait, forgot something... thats a bold, italic, underlined 'a'. Everyone else likes height/weight proportional, fit, skinny, etc. Theres a girl on the local c-list who's titled herself right past BBW to SBBW. Yeah, super fat. Looking for a fit attractive guy who wants a 350 girl. She'll be looking for a while I bet.
AND ANOTHER THING. There are big (moderately attractive) women, but whats with EVERY fat chick calling themselves beautiful? Half are mouth breathers, that is not a beautiful trait.
