B8 Avant suspension upgrades...looking for advice
 

I just traded a '08 GTI for a '11 Avant. It doesn't have ADS, and I'm not liking the "floaty" feel of the ride in the Audi. I was probably going to be disappointed no matter what coming from the VW right?

Anyway, I'm hoping to get some advice on what suspension upgrades I should make to the Avant. Not looking to go too crazy, just stiffen up the ride and handling to something closer to the GTI is all. Too much to ask?

I still want it to handle NYC potholes and snow though. The GTI was perfectly fine in that regard.