can someone direct me to where i can buy the wire harness connector that connects to the engine speed sensor the black wire that connects to the connector came off and it doesnt look like i can solder it back on? thank you

 

You need a new sensor, the wiring is integrated with the sensor. The connector is located next to the O2 sensor connectors on the bulkhead. It should be the black connector.

 

its the wireing harness connecter to ecu that is damaged not the sensor portion ( the connector part that disconnectes there is three small wires a black one orange and white one you have to open up the rubber booty to access these)

 

Take a pic of it and post it here.
BTW don't start another thread of the same thing, bump the existing one up.