The relay I received is #30, I am going to start digging to find it and put it in.

 

please let me know if this works!! as you know we are fighting the same battle for the past couple of months

 

theres a relay panel breakdown in the sticky. If you havent found it yet

 

So far so good, the relay is only $19 from Audi, took me 2 minutes to put in, it is right next to the ECU, in the ECU box under drivers side wiper. I will drive it around today and let you know.

 

did it work?

 

Car is still starting everytime, but I didn't get to drive it much today, will see more tomorrow.

 

which relay was it? is there a part number? also did you get it from the dealership or did you order it?

 

It is relay #30, I got it from the dealer, they called it the ECU power relay, it was $19. They ordered it in for me, and I got it in two days. I feel confident that this is going to work, so I will have my wife drive it around more today.

 

and where did you say it was located? in the ecu box? cause i didnt see any relays in there, did you have to take the ecu out to get to them?

 

have the part number?