This is a story...

...about boy meets girl. boy likes girl, but there are some variables. girl was going to get married to ex-fiance. but girl tells boy they broke up the marridge becuse, girl got cold feet. but boy hears from other people that fiance dumped girl because girl needed to change his attitude. girl and ex-fiance are still best friends.

boy and girl dates. things are going good, and then one day girl breaks it to boy that ex fiance moved into girls house. girl also tells boy that they don't sleep in the same room. boy believes girl (for whatever reason and don't know why).

things continue to go good for boy and girl. but then, things start to get rocky. boy and girl fights and then get back together and fight and back together, back and forth for months. boy and girl enjoy each other's company and they have things in common, but they fight half the time. boy starts to think that girl is not appreciating boy, or boy feels under appreciated by girl. boy has been feeling this for awhile. boy not sure what to do because boy likes girl, but there are so many variables because girl has attitude and lives with ex fiance, and boy doesn't really know if girl and ex fianace are still sleeping with each other. boy wants to believe that they are not, but has a hard time because the mind play tricks on boy. at this point - boy feels effy about things/everything.

christmas comes around, boy still feel underappreciated and feels that he is the only one trying to make this relationship work.
boy gives girl christmas present, but christmas is not here yet, girl opens christmas present, it doesn't fit girl. boy ask girl to return or exchange it. girl said the gift was cute and that her neice can wear it and if it was okay to give it to her. boy gets offended and unappreciated once again. at this point, what is boy to do? BTW through out this 6-7 month or dating between boy and girl - they only had sex 3 times or so. and boy hasn't gotten any for the past 3-4 months. what is boy to do? what should boy do? what would you do if this was you? your opinion counts.

So this is happening to my roomate, I personally think he should drop that bitch. it seems like she is manipulating him somwhow. maybe for conveniece and emotional comfort or whatever. she does have a pretty face, but her attitude sucks. I think he is just lonely. [8D]

 

Why hasn't boy ever spent the night at girl's house?
Is girl playing boy and "ex-fiance"?

Honestly, there is no reason for boy to have to deal with this drama.
I say leave girl alone to live her twisted life with the "ex-fiance"!
As a friend to boy, why not try introducing him to some other girls?

Just my $0.02

 

I think girl lives like 2 hours away from boy, girl has stayed at boys house a few times. but I dont know why boy has never been to girls house, i think because girl's nephew (2 of them) and ex-fiance live together and it may be awkward. I've tried to have boy meet other girls, but for some reason, he is stuck with this one and not all that interested. the only time boy and girl get to see each other is during the week, because she works in the city. I think she lives a few hours from the city, so during the week, she stays at one of her friends house and goes home during the weekends. but lately boy and girl hasnt been seeing each other as much as before. I really think he is on the verge of getting burned, or getting his heart broken if it hasnt already happend yet. Maybe he is still holding on to some hope, don't know why? I think he is an idiot. or again kind of lonely I think. He should just give it up.

 

shes totally playing him. no way ud move in with ur "ex"fiance unless things are still happening. ive been engaged before, i dont think the "and now were just friends" story ever really happens, especially under one roof.

 

Dude, run from that. **** that sh*t you dont deserve it. I vote you back off and if she really needs you and its really 'meant to be' she will come back for you.

 

yeah I think girl and ex fiance has been together for like 10 years or something. let me ask him.

 

BS! of course they're fvcking. Tell your friend to get his **** straight and move on. No man needs that kinda BS in his life. Yea love hurts but sometimes you just gotta cut your losses. Shes obviously playing him.

 

Thats' what me and all my friends that he told the story to has told him, but for some reason, he thinks she is genuine.

 

Your roommate is a loser...all right.

I wouldn't spend an hour with a b.i.t.c.h, I wonder why your roommate is being used as a doormat. The problem is not the girl, or a relationship....the problem is with ur roommate. I mean, it's her personality defect to be a b.i.t.c.h, wonder what is the defect in ur friend?? Sorry, rude as my response sounds, but I have no sympathy for people those who can't stand and remain used by others, which in this case is ur buddy!

 

Don't know dude, I think he's got nothing else going on right now. I bet when somebody else comes around he would drop her like a bad habit, but for now, I think he's just, I don't know hanging out and enjoying the drama or something... personally if he drops her now, he would have to deal with less heartache i think... oh well..