yeah for real best wishes to your bro and wife,i really hope everything goes fine

 

Best wishes to them ... and don't let them give up hope and belief

 

Best wishes to them, sorry about there misfortunes.

They'll have a kid, just got to keep working at it. Having 2 go like that must be real tough on her mentally, hope she keeps her head high and knows its not her fault at all

My Aunt had two kids go like that before finally having another two healthy babies.... Its a tough thing, but its part of life. They just need to keep working at it and adventually things will turn out right

 

Hopefully everything would be ok, my prayers and wishes!!!

 

Sorry to hear that buddy, i give my best wishes to you and your family.
Tell them not to give up they will get their baby eventually.

 

My thoughts and prayers go out to them. Best wishes.

 

Im so very sorry
Oh my goodness, bless them. This is so sad to hear. I cant even imagine what they are going thru right now. I pray that they can have the baby they have always wanted soon. And this is soo tragic! I just feel horrible about this. I have two wonderful children and I remember how scary it was just to not find the heartbeat on Joey at 17 weeks, but finally they did. I felt soo sick to my stomach just the thought that I was leaveing with no baby.
I pray so deeply for sister and her family, and all you and her friends.

 

Sorry to hear this about your brother and your wife. It is odd that there are so many good people out there who are having difficulties having kids, yet drug dealers, prostitutes, child molesters etc. manage to have children when they don't want to…

Anyway, dwelling on the loss is not a great thing. The only advice as someone who has gone through similar experiences (and is still there) is to remember the people who are worse off.

We all feel a great loss when we lose the most precious thing we have, yet how much harder would it have been if the baby went to term and some complication resulted in the child being born with a physical or mental disability?

Sometimes it seems God is not so kind on us, but we don't know what the future would have held for us or for them. This is where you faith is tested. Do we only remember God in the bad times or the good times too… I remember shortly after our loss, my wife met a lady whose child had passed away at the age of 18 years, not months… It was a bit of a strange sign from God that things could be worse.

I hope and pray for things to work out next time round, whenever that may.

P.S. if your brother ever wants to chat, he is more than welcome to contact me. There is this little un-written rule that we men have to be strong, or at least stronger than our partners. Problem is sometimes we need to talk too. For some more professional help, do a search in his local area for support groups. Sometimes talking to a complete stranger is easier. Just my opinion...

 

Thank you all. I appreciate it. Been a ghost around these parts last week.

But it got worse. They were trying to get her to have the baby naturally but after 4 days of inducing medicine, nothing, so they cut her open, had some serious complications, and they had to take her uterus. So baby is no longer option for them unless adoption.

So thank you for your prayers, we almost lost her too with all the blood she lost so i really think all of our prayers and the little baby saved her life.
Thank you all!

God love the AF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Thats really sad man, my prayers go out to you and your family and I hope you all can get through it allright