What do u think will get u further?
 

I have a friendly wager with my friend that a guy that is mean, or puts down a girl alot will get more "attention" from a girl (if u were looking for a quick pick up), than a guy that is nice at a party or club, under a first impression. What do u think?

In a nutshell, what do u think will work better, being mean trying to pick up a girl or nice?

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none u gotta be confident in ur game and be urself

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Neither of these. I just whip out my sh*t and the ladies fall to there knees.

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theres that old saying nice guys finish last, and it does seem as though girls respond to the mean guys more than the nice ones, i dont know why this it but it sux for the nice guys

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it depends on the gurl anyways

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i have noticed that. This is goong to be done by one of my friends that has a good game and see wat he comes up with. He tends to be on the mean side. I think a good sarcastic humor is the best, and it has done me well. Have them think ur mean some times, but never for long. U need to be able to redeem ur self in a few minutes. Anyone know what a neg is. They do work alot actually. I use them at parties and they help spark a good conversation. And then teh girl doesnt think she is special, bring her back down to a normal level, as supposed to the girls that think they are the greatest. U kno ur doing good when u get a light hit on the arm within a minute of talking. The problem his to be confident. Some liquid courage always helps aslong as ur not drunk.

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any girls have opinions? I have a better way to explain it. Up till the women is in late 20s and up, mean, but when they start looking for the "one" nice guys have the edge.

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i like guys w/ backbone, not passive, i laugh at guys that act like a**holes.
i vote for nice guys w/ a dirty mind

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so the sarcastic nice guy type personality. That are nice but can dish it out. I would like to say i fall in the category after 10 or so minutes.

Panda, this is just very general, dont post it depends on the gurl, ur ruining all the fun.

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i'll keep that in mind:D