I have a friendly wager with my friend that a guy that is mean, or puts down a girl alot will get more "attention" from a girl (if u were looking for a quick pick up), than a guy that is nice at a party or club, under a first impression. What do u think?

In a nutshell, what do u think will work better, being mean trying to pick up a girl or nice?

 

Neither of these. I just whip out my sh*t and the ladies fall to there knees.

 

none u gotta be confident in ur game and be urself

 

theres that old saying nice guys finish last, and it does seem as though girls respond to the mean guys more than the nice ones, i dont know why this it but it sux for the nice guys

 

it depends on the gurl anyways

 

i have noticed that. This is goong to be done by one of my friends that has a good game and see wat he comes up with. He tends to be on the mean side. I think a good sarcastic humor is the best, and it has done me well. Have them think ur mean some times, but never for long. U need to be able to redeem ur self in a few minutes. Anyone know what a neg is. They do work alot actually. I use them at parties and they help spark a good conversation. And then teh girl doesnt think she is special, bring her back down to a normal level, as supposed to the girls that think they are the greatest. U kno ur doing good when u get a light hit on the arm within a minute of talking. The problem his to be confident. Some liquid courage always helps aslong as ur not drunk.

 

any girls have opinions? I have a better way to explain it. Up till the women is in late 20s and up, mean, but when they start looking for the "one" nice guys have the edge.

 

i like guys w/ backbone, not passive, i laugh at guys that act like a**holes.
i vote for nice guys w/ a dirty mind

 

so the sarcastic nice guy type personality. That are nice but can dish it out. I would like to say i fall in the category after 10 or so minutes.

Panda, this is just very general, dont post it depends on the gurl, ur ruining all the fun.

 

i'll keep that in mind