What am I doing wrong?
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RE: What am I doing wrong?
My car itself is not a chick magnet, However I am. - So by putting me in your car will bring chicks to it.
Kidding.
But seriously, Do not let a woman judge you or date you by what you drive. - I have dated girls who have looked at me because I have money. - However I have found the women who are not impressed by your car, but more by the love you offer and the trust and confidment they find in you the better off you are as a whole.
As noted, women who date you for your bank account will leave you when your bank account does. - Plus they are VERY expensive.
I know first hand what it is like to date both types of women. - My suggestion is to find a woman who grew up poor, worked hard...is now successful. - You will find this the best type of woman, because they understand money, then understand what it means to not have money... but more importantly they have learned to do without and do not require the maintence a spoiled brat does. - Dating the brat is a living hell.
I'm head over heals for a girl who drives a $400 car. - I could care less what we drive in, as long as I'm with her I'm happy.
Kidding.
But seriously, Do not let a woman judge you or date you by what you drive. - I have dated girls who have looked at me because I have money. - However I have found the women who are not impressed by your car, but more by the love you offer and the trust and confidment they find in you the better off you are as a whole.
As noted, women who date you for your bank account will leave you when your bank account does. - Plus they are VERY expensive.
I know first hand what it is like to date both types of women. - My suggestion is to find a woman who grew up poor, worked hard...is now successful. - You will find this the best type of woman, because they understand money, then understand what it means to not have money... but more importantly they have learned to do without and do not require the maintence a spoiled brat does. - Dating the brat is a living hell.
I'm head over heals for a girl who drives a $400 car. - I could care less what we drive in, as long as I'm with her I'm happy.
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RE: What am I doing wrong?
ORIGINAL: TheTTkid YOU have to get the girl... the TT will make the girl a little more interested because to her (unless your becca or the other girls here) its just a sports car. Its like the icing on the cake, youve got to be the good stuff, because there is no icing without a cake...
all in all, be you, talk to her and let her know youcare...
all in all, be you, talk to her and let her know youcare...
Not to sound completely stuck up but that is one of the things that REALLY turned me on about my husband. I was the director of national sales ops at my company; Vini was the cashier in the cafeteria I saw in the lunch line every day. I owned a home and drove my Celica GT convertible (may she rest in peace); he was sleeping on his brother's couch and drove a beat up Ford Bronco. He did not let any of those differences in status or economics intimidate him. He focused on what we had in common - a love for latin culture and dancing, passion for life, and serious sexual tension! It hascarried us for seven years through a lot of stuff, and we are stronger than ever.
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RE: What am I doing wrong?
oh and I swear this is from a movie. I think Hitch actually. I specifically remember the hand on the back, not to high, not to low line.
I gotta say TTkid, for a 17 year old you are pretty good at this stuff.
AF guy,I'm gonna give it to you straight. I think your only problem is that you want it too much. If your car is about "gotta get a woman,your signature here is about "gotta get a woman," your questions are about how to get a woman - that means your entire VIBE is constantly giving off "I GOTTA GET A WOMAN AND I DON'T CARE WHO YOU ARE!!!!"
Man, that is a serious turnoff. Girls don't do desperate - unless they are desperate too. And you don't want that.
So in addition to the kid's excellent advice, I would say really focus on other things in your life that matter to you - hobbies, work, family. Go to the park with a nephew to fly kites, not to find a girl. Volunteer at a shelter to help poor people, not to find a girl. Live to LIVE, not to find a girl. I guarantee you if you do this, the girl - the RIGHT girl - will find you.
NL
AF guy,I'm gonna give it to you straight. I think your only problem is that you want it too much. If your car is about "gotta get a woman,your signature here is about "gotta get a woman," your questions are about how to get a woman - that means your entire VIBE is constantly giving off "I GOTTA GET A WOMAN AND I DON'T CARE WHO YOU ARE!!!!"
Man, that is a serious turnoff. Girls don't do desperate - unless they are desperate too. And you don't want that.
So in addition to the kid's excellent advice, I would say really focus on other things in your life that matter to you - hobbies, work, family. Go to the park with a nephew to fly kites, not to find a girl. Volunteer at a shelter to help poor people, not to find a girl. Live to LIVE, not to find a girl. I guarantee you if you do this, the girl - the RIGHT girl - will find you.
NL
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RE: What am I doing wrong?
ORIGINAL: theTTkid
trust me just pay attention to a girl and she'll pay attention back...
trust me just pay attention to a girl and she'll pay attention back...
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Joined: Mar 2007
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RE: What am I doing wrong?
You know why? Thats right, girls are attention ****** and they need it constantly to make sure you like them and only want to be with them.
sure it takes time (sucks if your impatient) but if you take the time to get to know someone they'll be good to you