i can't find it for the life of me. i know its down right above the flywheel but can someone possibly point in the general direction? got a picture after i removed my coolant resivoir. thanks.

 

its on the driver side. on the tranny bell housing. under the turbo.

 

Just Follow the cord all the way down. Its the cord to the farthest right in the harness you have pictured. It has a grey connector. You can feel a big plastic bump and right next to it is a small bolt head. 10mm I believe. Hopefully you found it already.