Something nobody asked yet how much are you wanting to spend.. Correction how much can you afford to spend?

I would stick with the cheap and simple things first
1. Air intake ($75-250)
2. Exhaust ($700)
3. Springs & Shocks ($700)
4. Sway Bar ($250)
then cosmetics
6. Lip Spoiler ($30-50)
7. Debadge (free)
8. Rims ($1000+)
9. Body Kit or just a bumper ($600+)
This is saying that all your maintance is taken care of already.

 

thanks for all the replys guys i will probably go with the air intake. it will make my car breathe better and it will give it a good sound. any recommendations would be helpful. interenet sites to go along with it.