After some considerable research. I'm thinking I will go with Stasis Street sports (Koni's with some adjustments). From what I've seen, the Koni's seem to offer the compromise I am looking for.

The V-maxx have the best lowering capabilities tho.

 

I have heard more positive things about Stassis than V-maxx. I did not mean they are more bouncy than stock, they claim to have the same spring rate as stock so they shouldn't feel too different.