I thought I'd ask if there is a way to program the windows one-touch button using vagcom perhaps to make it work the other way around. With that said, i wanted to make the windows go all the way up/down by pushing hard on the button rather than tapping it. IMO, i feel its safer that way. any thoughts or wisdom?

 

No, the switch has only 1 detent. If you hold down the button then let go the window should stop. The B6 and on models have dual detents which is what you want. Pushing it lightly wouldn't activate the one touch windows, pushing it harder would activate the one touch.
Your out of luck un-less you buy a B6.