i don'know the part# or loc#,cannot find it,nappy auto parts should have it.relays handle a few different things,it may be part of central locking also as when you lock car w/key and hold, windows and sunroof close.but you may not notice if the locking does it also unless you have car on and lock/unlock doors.

Thanks for your help, so is this something i should just live with or will it one day die and ill have my windows stuck open?

can't say for sure.should be an easy change,i'd get it cause you are getting a slight power surge?hmm...check the fuse itself to make sure it is proper amp and in good condition.it shows power windows are #15 in the fuse panel and should be 10amp(red).sunroof is#30 and has a 20amp(yellow).

Thanks man... Ill check the fuses and try to swap a relay and see what happens.