I have mine set to the medium setting and it feels great. Rear sway bars are great but I would do the transmission stabilizer first if you haven't done that yet as that will make a very big difference, and then do the rear sway bar.

 

does it matter for a tip?

that sounds like a new can of worms, i dont have a whole lot of bank, is it necessary?

 

i have the neuspeed front and rear sway bar with the metal end links and i can't say how much diffance just the rear made since i install front and rear at the same time but the handling from stock winter sways to the neuspeeds was a night and day diffance probaly one of the best suspension mods i have made on my A4

I also have a awe tunning transmission stabilizer mounted on the car